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 Post subject: where to start.... *ugh*
PostPosted: Thu Mar 11, 2010 8:57 pm 
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First off, I'd like to apologize as I haven't been on here in a rather long time. As we all know, the ride of life can sometimes become a bumpy ride and postpone us from doing the things we'd rather be doing versus what we need to do...

This is just a generic update, as I'm not really sure what to say...

Long story short, Wren and I moved seperately almost three months ago, and at that point I moved in with my partner. Things went well for about two months until our landlord (who knew my girlfriend personally) threw a fit and wanted us out. That situation was completely a mess and it was best that we left there anyways...

Then, she and I stayed with my stepfather for a little bit, just to buy time until we could get a place. Having lost our apartment and our job on the farm there, we were in a bit of a rut. My stepfather, well, let's just say I was completely surprised when he agreed to put us up. He's fairly homophobic, and for lack of a better phrase (im sure you're familiar with it), I was always the "red-headed step-child" to him... (literally) So, after a week and a few days he gave us a date to be out by. He's been a bachelor ever since my mother left him and he likes his privacy and empty house... So we left there, and couch hopped over to my partner's friends...

Things were looking up, she got a job and had transport to work. I got a good recommendation to a job... and with assistance from DSS we would have had an apartment in no time...

But, there was a lesson to be learned that I should have seen coming...
The attitude that my partner had showed occationally, grew and changed in her as she returned to her hometown with her friends. She dumped me two days in... there were some warning signs, but I was in denial... I trusted her too much...

We were going to be friends and try to stay roommates, but that only lasted a few days as well. Its been about a week and she's already pretty close with a guy friend of hers... I'm back at my mothers house and have a job interview this week. I have a pretty good chance of getting this job, so long as I can get transportation to and from work I'll be fine there...

I'll be able to save up money here and get my own single apartment. Im planning for a place I can afford alone, but big enough for a friend to stay...

I feel like with everything thats happened so fast in such a short period of time I've just overloaded my emotions. And even if no one responds to this, I think just writing it out's helping... There's SO much more to the story but a lot of it is really personal so I'm censoring...

But, anyhow. yeah... theres my update. lmao :) Ill try to check up as often as possible. lets get this forum going again. I miss this crew... you guys helped me through a lot in the past. thanks again for that.

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 Post subject: Re: where to start.... *ugh*
PostPosted: Sun Apr 18, 2010 3:37 am 
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Good for you and I hope it all works out for you. :wolfinnocent:


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